Harley Shack

Finding the right romantic partner for you can be difficult. One friend of mine has gone so far as to declare that she needs to move to a new place, having already dated all of the single men in her current town.

She told me that she has no other way to meet a new guy, except online dating, and she's decided that dating websites aren't for her.

She thought her only option was to move. Personally, I think this is silly. She overlooked a major way to meet great potential partners : go about your life and do fun things you enjoy!

Amazing! You mean that someone should actually go out and do fun things? And meet someone? No way, that's too simple, there must be a catch. Except there isn't. She should just go out and do fun things, things she'd like to do anyhow, and meet people in that fashion.

For instance, she loves reading. I recommended she join a book group. At the very least she'll meet interesting people who share her passion for literature. If she doesn't meet men there directly, she may meet some new friends who can introduce her to her perfect guy later on.

Anyone can apply this same technique, regardless of their interests. Do what you love, and your dating life will flourish! Don't be so tied up in the work of finding someone' that you have no fun in life : this doesn't make you more attractive to potential dates either by the way. Do the things that you enjoy, and find the right partner who will complement your interests.

Another friend of mine has been more successful on the finding a partner front, by following his passions. He's a gym buff, and met his wife while working out. Now the pair work out together, and go for runs. They share an active lifestyle and have a blast. I'm another example. I love to write (you may have noticed). I met my partner at a writing group. Now in our spare time, we write together.

This is a version of the sage if clichd advice to be yourself. It's great advice, and you can't lose. If you find a partner, wonderful, you'll have lots of fun things in common. And in the mean time, you are enjoying yourself and developing your own interests.

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